Make a plan. Take control to ensure you are making the right decisions.
Knowledge - Do you know your entitlements?
Strategy -Do you know what you want? What are your objectives?
Preservation -Have you preserved your safety, your equity and your relationships?
Information gathering - Have you gathered key dates and documents?
Issues - What are the current and potential future issues and conflicts in dispute?
Be at your best - Have you surrounded yourself with a strong support network? Do you have access to support services?
Holistic advice - Have you seen a financial planner, accountant, health professional to reality test your potential outcome?
Make it enforceable - Have you considered documenting a resolution by way of orders or a written agreement?
Compliance - Do you understand your responsibilities and obligations? Expect compliance.